Her Again....and again!!

She called, yet again at 6.12am in the morning , yet again stupid hours shes calling him...and its grating on my patience...call me insecure call me watever u want, it is all what im not, i just want to know why...does she think im away ...or not around,...what are the reasons...friends call at proper hours, new zealand is only a few hours behind so what the fuck...i used to think it was acceptable even tho its an ex calling...WHAT IF IT WAS MY EX??? AT 6 IN THE MORNING? MOST PROBABLY A HUGE FIGHT IS WHAT IM GUESSING..BUT IM supposed to put up with this shit? why? coz they ended on good terms? i did too, so whats their excuse? and what for? to tell him she misses him? no other ppl to talk to? so tell me...what do i do about her coming back in december and wanting to meet his family n hang out? tell me, what am i supposed to do about that? accept it? and feel as if i have been pushed out of the way coz she has known him longer?? tell me, why else would an ex want to come back and see her ex's family?? honey theres no competition here...its not a battle of winning hearts...if u wanna see an ex u can always meet outside...why does she wanna meet at home n see everyone? i just want to know, i have asked many people and the same people give me 2 options and what to do...its either she wants to still build relations so that if anything was to happen in the future( she hopes) she got it easy

2nd she still doesnt want to feel that shes not connected to him so with the importance of family to him she wants to be closer...if not that then to tell me HIS GF that she too is good with his family....i feel its all bullshit n someone needs to be told...im not jealos or even insecure, i just want to know the motives, everyone has motives to do things...or her excuse could be because she hasnt seen them for so long...why would u want to see them in the 1st place u and him no longer are together...so why meet at home...why cant u meet outside?? pls tell me..im confused....